The 3 Pillars of Natural Learning
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What really supports children in learning naturally?
In this episode, I’ll share the three pillars that have guided our family’s unschooling journey: creating a nurturing nest (your home atmosphere, environment, and tools), building connection (to yourself and your children), and inviting inspiration (bringing in fresh ideas and experiences).
These three areas work together to create a rich, joyful space for learning and growth.
Before diving into the framework, I also take you behind the scenes of my own journey, from studying to be a teacher in Germany, to discovering unschooling in Ireland, to exploring Waldorf, Montessori and Charlotte Mason. Along the way, I’ve learned that there isn’t one “right” way to learn. Only what works for your unique family.
What You’ll Hear in This Episode
- My personal story of leaving behind traditional education and embracing natural learning.
- Why unschooling was the foundation, and how voices like John Holt, Sandra Dodd, Pam Laricchia, and Amy Childs shaped my perspective.
- Family Life: How to create an “Unschooling Nest” rooted in your family’s values and rhythms.
- Connection: Moving from control to partnership and building trust through small, everyday acts of kindness.
- Inspiration: Finding sparks of curiosity in the world around you, from books and films to spontaneous experiences and so much more!
- Reflection questions to help you apply this framework in your own family.

Reflection Questions
- Family Life – What values shape your family, and how can you intentionally weave them into your daily rhythm?
- Connection – What’s one small way you can practice partnership over control today?
- Inspiration – What has sparked your child’s curiosity recently?
Resources & Mentions
- John Holt’s books on unschooling (Teach Your Own, How Children Learn, How Children Fail)
- Pam Laricchia – Living Joyfully Blog & Podcast